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A Faraway Birthday.

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LEXI

It is my granddaughter’s second birthday today.

I am so very blessed to have such a lively, healthy, friendly, lovable little girl to be a granny to.

I wish her all the best that life has to give, good health and happiness, faith, hope and tons of love. I wish for her perseverance for life’s little curve balls, a will of iron, a backbone of steel, and a heart of gold.

My sweet little Lexi, remember – I love you like the stars and more – HAPPY 2ND BIRTHDAY!!!!!

A sense of Self…

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My little munchkin.

The second Saturday of the year has come and gone already!

Don’t tell me time doesn’t fly. The last time I held my little granddaughter, she was 4 months old. In the blink of an eye, she is 9 days away from her 2nd birthday, and not a baby anymore. Where did my little baby girl go? Where did the time go? I have no way of knowing when I’ll see her again, and I’ll be a stranger to her, a face she sees from time to time on a cell phone screen… I hate the huge panic over this virus, and I hate the distance between myself and my children and my granddaughter.

One thing I have learnt over the past year -family is important , very much so. Nothing can replace the love of a mother or grandmother, father or grandfather. Uncles, aunts, nieces and nephews – important pieces of the puzzle of life.

I grew up with family (my father was one of 7 children!), then, through circumstances, grew apart from them, and lost contact for many years. I have recently started communicating with a few of my cousins, uncles and aunts, and I KNOW I missed out big time. And I do blame my parents for the loss to a certain extent.

Not everybody has wonderful relationships with their families, I know. But believe me, a life with irritating family members, is just soooooo much better than a life without family.

Huge, as milestones go…

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As promised yesterday, I am going to tell you about another huge event that happened since I last posted (since the time before yesterday, which was 2 years ago!) And just so you know, this is typically me – either full on, or totally off. I haven’t posted for 2 years, now I want to post twice a day…

I had the privilege of raising 3 children. Three very amazing human beings, I must add (as most parents probably think about their children). And they left home for varsity, and then one by one they started working, and going about their lives.

Then, of course, as life goes, one by one, they met someone and fell in love. My daughter got married and in the same year, she and her husband moved to Canada – big tears…

But, people, then…then after many years (or that’s what it felt like to me), they decided to start a family, and last year January, I became a grandmother for the first time!!! Oh, the joy….

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I am now a proud, doting grandmother, and I will not apologize for it! My little granddaughter is the light of my life, and she brings me so much joy. From a distance, of course, since she is in Canada, and I am in South Africa.

The distance is a sore point, I can not lie about it. I am so pleased that my children have grown up to be independent human beings, because that is how I tried to raise them. But if I could have a say, if I had a choice, I would prefer to have them closer. I would like to see my little angel more than twice in 18 months. I would love to be part of her life, and form some kind of bond with her.

The fact remains – I am a granny, I am chuffed to bits about it, and I adore my little granddaughter, and it is one of the best things that ever happened in my life.

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